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How to Maintain Your Individual Identity While Being in a Close Relationship When you start a meaningful relationship, it’s easy to get swept up in “we”-thinking: shared hobbies, joint friends, even the subtle erosion of some of your solo interests. While compromise and togetherness are right and healthy, losing your individual identity can be a silent danger. At its worst, …

Dating culture has evolved dramatically with each generation, and Gen Z is no exception. The way this generation approaches relationships is distinct, influenced by the rise of social media, online interactions, and a fast-paced lifestyle. To navigate the world of modern dating, it’s important to familiarize yourself with the terminology used by Gen Z. Here, we’ll explore 10 key relationship …

How to Navigate the Transition from Casual Dating to a Committed Relationship You’ve been seeing someone for a while now. Things feel easy, fun, and natural. You laugh, share stories, maybe even meet each other’s friends. But you sense there’s more potential — maybe both of you want something deeper. How do you cross that threshold without ruining what’s already …

Ever wonder how some leave a date with their partner still smiling? It’s not just about charm, style, or an expensive dinner—it’s about the words you choose at the very end. That final line can make your presence unforgettable, leaving your date intrigued, amused, and eager for the next encounter. In the world of high-end dating, knowing how to leave …

The world of dating has drastically evolved over the past few decades. Gone are the days when finding a match was a matter of casual interactions and face-to-face meetings. With the rise of dating apps and social media, meeting someone new is just a swipe away. However, while technology has made dating more accessible, it has also brought its fair …

Emotional boundaries are limits you place on the energy and emotions you give and receive in a relationship. They can apply to romantic relationships as well as platonic, familial, and work-based ones. “Emotional boundaries have to do with protecting your own emotional state and ensuring that you feel safe,” says Gabriella Giachin, a licensed clinical social worker at New York City Psychotherapy …

I’ve got a question for you – in your list of qualities to look for in a partner, is intelligence included? Or perhaps, “must be able to ‘get’ me? It should be. When it comes to long-term relationships, you need to have a connection that goes beyond physical chemistry. Having a partner who matches you intellectually goes a long way …

The key to joyful relationships may lie in the small, often overlooked moments of life. After years of working with clients and on my own relationship, I’ve noticed that the happiest couples develop intentional rituals that infuse their relationships with meaning. The happiest couples aren’t those who avoid all conflict or make grand gestures, explains licensed marriage and family therapist, Soo …

Marrying my wife Olive was one of the defining decisions I made in my twenties. This is the story of how it happened. When I turned 23, I created a 5-year plan for my life. In year 3 I would travel for an extended time. In year 4 I would start dating someone seriously. By the end of year 5, …

Being single in 2025 means that, despite your vision of rom-com meet-cutes IRL, you’ve most likely dipped your toe into the world of online dating. And even with just a single dip, you know there is quite literally no torture like trying to put together a dating profile. It feels like, through a handful of photos and a couple of prompts, you …

Have you ever thought about how good you are at dating? Dating can be an exciting time in life. Most of us think that if it’s the right person, dating will be easy, but that’s not necessarily the case. It’s possible to be a great catch, but really bad at dating. Dating well involves many skills we can and should …

Going through the world of attraction can be both thrilling and challenging. It’s a realm where preferences and perceptions intertwine, shaping our connections in profound ways. In this exploration, we embark on a journey of empathy and insight, seeking to understand the biggest turn-offs for men. These aren’t judgments but rather signposts on the road to connection. We’ll offer a compassionate lens …

Forget the old cliché that women are the emotional ones. Turns out, it’s actually men who tend to fall in love faster—and often, earlier—than women. According to a new study from the Australian National University, men tend to fall in love earlier than women, by about a month on average. But, it might not be all about the feelings; it could …

If you’re wondering, ‘is she the one?’ here are ten signs she might be: She brings out the best in you Have you noticed that your life has changed for the better since she has entered it, and not just because of her presence? You’re more goal-oriented now, or more motivated to improve your own life and circumstances. You’re trying …

If real life was a rom-com, your relationship would go something like this: The ultimate meet-cute would have you locking eyes and knowing in your soul that they’re The One from the first “hello.” Cut to a montage of baking together (with spilled flour all over the kitchen, obviously), sunset strolls holding hands, and maybe a tandem bicycle ride or two. You …